On December 1st, 2011, the Gay-Straight Alliance (an club organized by students nation-wide of all sexual orientations to work towards creating safer schools and promoting tolerance of homosexuality) of Washington & Jefferson College in Washington, Pennsylvania, set up a Christmas tree decorated with condom packages in honor of World AIDS Day , which is a day dedicated to raising awareness against AIDS and HIV. Shortly after the tree was put up, the club was approached by the college’s Young Republican’s Club and was asked to take the tree down; the GSA standing by freedom of speech and the need to raise AIDS awareness, and the YRC arguing that it was a direct attack on Christianity, and that the tree itself would cause quite a commotion because of all the activity that goes on in the place it is located.
While I do agree that the club could have gone without christening the top of the tree with an open condom, it needs to be said that this action was both well-intended and is not an attack on Christianity in the slightest sense.
While the image of the Christmas tree is directed related with Christmas, it has no direct relation to the Christian aspect of Christmas. The way I see it, there are three parts to Christmas as a holiday - the commercial, the religious, and the philosophical (will be explained in greater detail at a later time.) Not once did Jesus ever walk up to a tree in the Gospel of Matthew and christen it as a symbol of the holiday - in fact, the idea Christmas tree was adopted from paganism, as is much of the holiday of Christmas. It symbolizes the commercial aspect of Christmas - buy the tree, buy stuff to decorate the tree with, buy stuff to put under the tree.
Because World AIDS Day takes place in December, the GSA decided as a creative way to promote safe sex they would put a spin on the “gifting tree” and line it with free condoms that anybody could walk up and take. This was in no way meant to disrespect the holiday by lining it with sex - instead, it was meant to promote halting the spread of AIDS, which I would consider positive to begin with.
But what shocked me the most about this article was not the actual content of it, but rather the comment section below, where a war was waged in many different lenses both for and against homosexuality.
The major argument I was taking away from the comments section against homosexuality was the belief that the gays were “all about sex.” This couldn’t be farther from the truth.
The largest misconception made about the gay community is that it is solely a sexual preference, when it actuality the scope of homosexuality goes far beyond that. A relationship between a man and a man, or a woman and a woman, is not held because they think the “sex is great,” but because they have legitimately fallen in love with one another. Just because we’ve been taught that boys are supposed to like girls and vice-versa means nothing; many gays will tell you right from the earliest point that they tried to make girlfriends or boyfriends in elementary school that they knew they weren’t meant to love the opposite sex; it just wasn’t there for them.
A staggering amount of all suicides worldwide are preformed by homosexuals due to the sheer intolerance to homosexuality, whether it be by picketers with signs that pronounce “God Hates Fags,” or isolation by their own family members. Many people call those who take their life because of their sexuality “irrational” because they believe that if you are being bullied for your sexuality, you should just go ahead and change to being straight. What they fail to grasp, however, is that this is nearly impossible for many homosexuals without losing all of their happiness in the process.
I have spoken with a few handfuls of homosexual people on the border of suicide because they were angry that they could not “fit in.” I remember distinctively one of my own friends telling me, “I just wish I could be normal like everybody else… it’s just so hard to change who you are when being straight doesn’t feel comfortable to you.”
It’s the kind of ignorance that is spread under the idea that gays are in it only for sex that has pushed the “pray the gay away” movement to the point where men and women of all ages commit suicide to free themselves from this intolerance. So, please; remember that at the end of the day, love is love, and you can’t change that no matter how hard you try.